‘Many men have a dirty fantasy – but don’t try it if you get jealous’

A dating guru revealed a “dirty little” secret men are hiding.

Relationships writer Jana Hocking believes many blokes fantasise about their partners bonking other people.

After putting out a poll about Sєx confessions on Instagram, the 38-year-old found this fetish is pretty popular.

While some love hearing about their partners’ previous Sєxual experiences, others are keen to watch the action from the sidelines.

The former kink is known as “H๏τ past” and is more of a fantasy, while the latter actively involves Sєx and is referred to as “cuckolding”.

One of Jana’s followers admitted: “I enjoy and (finish) best when my wife narrates about Sєxual encounters with her ex, initially she was uncomfy but now we both enjoy it.”

And another said: “I found my ex’s porn tape, I enjoy watching it a lot.”

The Australian journalist admits similar thoughts have crossed her mind in the past too.

She told FEMAIL: “I can see how it’s kinda H๏τ seeing your partner be Sєxually adored by someone else. I get a bit flustered just thinking about it.”

Previously, Jana booked tickets for a Sєx party with an ex partner.

The raunchy bash fell through when he “chickened out”, which she admits was a bit of a relief in hindsight.

She admitted: “We agreed that if it was out of town we were less likely to get recognised so why not book a trip down south (metaphorically and logistically).

“Flights were sorted, the very expensive tickets were purchased, the extensive background check the club required was complete, and then… he chickened out. Which upon reflection was an absolute blessing because I tend to get a horrendous case of the green-eyed monster.

“Yes, I admit the jealous gene runs through my veins. So sure, I can fantasise about it but actually watching another woman hook up with my man, nope absolutely not! I’m quite certain it would have ended in tears.”

So would you experiment with the kink or would it make you feel too jealous? Let us know in the comments below.